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Saturday, July 4, 2009
Tips on Keeping Your Marriage Together
Respect his family members:
A man’s extended family is an integral part of his life now that you are his nuclear family. Coping with in-laws can be frustrating especially with mothers that don’t approve of you (like Monster-in-law), but bringing that baggage into your home is not needed. Be the best daughter-in-law you can be and help your husband in family affairs. The most important thing is that you are his wife whether they like it or not and then he loves you. Stay clear of anything that might cause friction between you and his family.
A warm welcome is not a bad idea:
Welcoming your spouse home from work or whenever he or she has being to may seem unimportant but it is the reason why your husband comes back home to you or why your wife looks forward to seeing you that day. It fosters intimacy between both of you.
Can you imagine how hurt your wife will be if she finds out you transferred some funds from your mutual account without her knowledge or how you would feel if you learnt that she changed your child’s school? Marriage is a partnership; hence the consciousness to make decisions together is very crucial in your marriage. You end up making decisions that will be mutual and favourable to each other.
Independence:
It is important that husbands and wives should not lose their identity if they are to succeed working together as a team. A woman lost her husband after thirty years of marriage and suddenly, she was at a crossroad. She didn’t know what she wanted because she had lived all her life for her husband. She cooked what he wanted, wore what he liked, went only to places he preferred and watched movies he chooses. She practically lived in her husband’s shadow and didn’t have her own identity. She had lost her own sense of independence. You should both have at least one activity that does not involve your spouse.
Celebrate as much as you can:
Make the most of your special times. Celebrate events like a promotion, acquiring your dream house, when your wife is pregnant and so on. Life is full of ups and downs and it is also short, so have fun and treat yourselves while you look forward to the next best thing.
A man’s extended family is an integral part of his life now that you are his nuclear family. Coping with in-laws can be frustrating especially with mothers that don’t approve of you (like Monster-in-law), but bringing that baggage into your home is not needed. Be the best daughter-in-law you can be and help your husband in family affairs. The most important thing is that you are his wife whether they like it or not and then he loves you. Stay clear of anything that might cause friction between you and his family.
A warm welcome is not a bad idea:
Welcoming your spouse home from work or whenever he or she has being to may seem unimportant but it is the reason why your husband comes back home to you or why your wife looks forward to seeing you that day. It fosters intimacy between both of you.
Can you imagine how hurt your wife will be if she finds out you transferred some funds from your mutual account without her knowledge or how you would feel if you learnt that she changed your child’s school? Marriage is a partnership; hence the consciousness to make decisions together is very crucial in your marriage. You end up making decisions that will be mutual and favourable to each other.
Independence:
It is important that husbands and wives should not lose their identity if they are to succeed working together as a team. A woman lost her husband after thirty years of marriage and suddenly, she was at a crossroad. She didn’t know what she wanted because she had lived all her life for her husband. She cooked what he wanted, wore what he liked, went only to places he preferred and watched movies he chooses. She practically lived in her husband’s shadow and didn’t have her own identity. She had lost her own sense of independence. You should both have at least one activity that does not involve your spouse.
Celebrate as much as you can:
Make the most of your special times. Celebrate events like a promotion, acquiring your dream house, when your wife is pregnant and so on. Life is full of ups and downs and it is also short, so have fun and treat yourselves while you look forward to the next best thing.
Singles: Why Fall For Deceit?
Hear: “When Ted proposed to me, I was elated.” says Anne. According to the 40 years old, her career was facing stiff opposition because she wasn’t married and so she became desperate. She met Ted who worked as a painter, supplying paintings to Anne’s company. He was six years younger than her but very mature.
“He was very caring; he later was in charge of my account. He was there for me during the barrages of interviews I had to go through to be promoted. Later on I urged him to move in with me. He didn’t hesitate and he assumed the role of a husband, you could imagine my joy when he finally proposed. After ten months of finally clinching the promotion to Manager of one of the company’s branches, Ted eloped with my personal assistant. Since he had access to my accounts, he could get all the funds and documents they needed for their travels. Fortunately, we didn’t get married because he said his mother advised him I get married since I was older than he was and then a society wedding would follow. I have being so foolish!”
See: Being in love does not stop you from making inquiries about your partner. Ask questions, get o know their family and friends and the place they hang out. Don’t ever throw away rumours, suggestions and stories about your date. That could just save you from heartache. Desperation is another factor for this. Men are smarter beings and can smell a desperate heart no matter the make up. Also when a woman is more interested in the guy’s purse than the person or character, she usually ends up being the victim of deceit.
“He was very caring; he later was in charge of my account. He was there for me during the barrages of interviews I had to go through to be promoted. Later on I urged him to move in with me. He didn’t hesitate and he assumed the role of a husband, you could imagine my joy when he finally proposed. After ten months of finally clinching the promotion to Manager of one of the company’s branches, Ted eloped with my personal assistant. Since he had access to my accounts, he could get all the funds and documents they needed for their travels. Fortunately, we didn’t get married because he said his mother advised him I get married since I was older than he was and then a society wedding would follow. I have being so foolish!”
See: Being in love does not stop you from making inquiries about your partner. Ask questions, get o know their family and friends and the place they hang out. Don’t ever throw away rumours, suggestions and stories about your date. That could just save you from heartache. Desperation is another factor for this. Men are smarter beings and can smell a desperate heart no matter the make up. Also when a woman is more interested in the guy’s purse than the person or character, she usually ends up being the victim of deceit.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Can love be described?
CAN LOVE BE DESCRIBED?
How can you describe love? How can you tell that you are really in love?
Love is a difficult thing to explain but not difficult to express. There is a saying that you can give without loving but you can’t love without giving.
Yes! Love involves giving, and giving means sharing. You share what you have not just with your spouse but with every other person you claim to love. I will be specifying on those in relationships but are not sure if the relationship is altar-bound.
Love means sharing. It means sharing your time, resources, and everything you can call your own. Love also involves making sacrifices. This is a major thing you have to take note of when you are dating or in a serious relationship.
If your partner is tight-fisted, even to you, then you have to watch out, it is really one of the dangerous signs to guard against. Love is not one-sided and it will never be. If you are in a relationship and you think your partner is in love with you but it looks like you are the only one trying to make it work, then you are in a one-sided relationship. Love involves commitment. It involves two different people working together to bring out a life of bliss from life’s challenges.
Some people don’t even know if they are in love! They have numerous girlfriends that they like but they can’t just seem to be able to ask one to marry them. Some ladies, due to one past experience or the other, have closed their hearts to love. They can’t see any good in a man.
Well, for love to thrive, you have to let go of all your bad experiences. You have to learn to forgive, only them can you love yourself. Once you can love yourself, you can then love other people positively. Married couples that stay married have come to accept that they have to love their spouse with the whole package. A tall, dark and handsome man might not be a clean person and a short, beautiful woman might be lousy. But if you genuinely love them as individuals, then you must be willing to love the whole package.
I think that above all what has being said above and you still can describe if you are in love, then you should check your expectations of a perfect man or woman. There is no perfect man or woman anywhere. As the days pass by in the relationship, you teach each other to be that perfect spouse. Bad characters die hard; don’t expect your partner to change overnight because it won’t work. You have to be patient and in that process, you will be hurt several times. You have to learn how to communicate and appreciate when the other person is making the effort to change.
Love is an individual thing. Nobody can be forced to fall in love. But you can nurture love. You can invest in it and see it yield rewards. You can be patient and not nagging. You can be quite and not criticizing. You can be willing to learn and not lord what you want on your partner. Love is a beautiful thing.
How can you describe love? How can you tell that you are really in love?
Love is a difficult thing to explain but not difficult to express. There is a saying that you can give without loving but you can’t love without giving.
Yes! Love involves giving, and giving means sharing. You share what you have not just with your spouse but with every other person you claim to love. I will be specifying on those in relationships but are not sure if the relationship is altar-bound.
Love means sharing. It means sharing your time, resources, and everything you can call your own. Love also involves making sacrifices. This is a major thing you have to take note of when you are dating or in a serious relationship.
If your partner is tight-fisted, even to you, then you have to watch out, it is really one of the dangerous signs to guard against. Love is not one-sided and it will never be. If you are in a relationship and you think your partner is in love with you but it looks like you are the only one trying to make it work, then you are in a one-sided relationship. Love involves commitment. It involves two different people working together to bring out a life of bliss from life’s challenges.
Some people don’t even know if they are in love! They have numerous girlfriends that they like but they can’t just seem to be able to ask one to marry them. Some ladies, due to one past experience or the other, have closed their hearts to love. They can’t see any good in a man.
Well, for love to thrive, you have to let go of all your bad experiences. You have to learn to forgive, only them can you love yourself. Once you can love yourself, you can then love other people positively. Married couples that stay married have come to accept that they have to love their spouse with the whole package. A tall, dark and handsome man might not be a clean person and a short, beautiful woman might be lousy. But if you genuinely love them as individuals, then you must be willing to love the whole package.
I think that above all what has being said above and you still can describe if you are in love, then you should check your expectations of a perfect man or woman. There is no perfect man or woman anywhere. As the days pass by in the relationship, you teach each other to be that perfect spouse. Bad characters die hard; don’t expect your partner to change overnight because it won’t work. You have to be patient and in that process, you will be hurt several times. You have to learn how to communicate and appreciate when the other person is making the effort to change.
Love is an individual thing. Nobody can be forced to fall in love. But you can nurture love. You can invest in it and see it yield rewards. You can be patient and not nagging. You can be quite and not criticizing. You can be willing to learn and not lord what you want on your partner. Love is a beautiful thing.
Making Your Bad Marriage Good
Hi there,
I was talking to the team at Save My Marriage Today recently, and we were talking about marriages gone bad. It seemed at one time that the only place that marriages went bust was in Hollywood, but anyone you talk to now either knows someone divorced or someone with marital problems. Hey, it may even be you.
The single biggest reason couples break up is due to "falling out of love" or poor communication. It seems as though many couples reach the 5 or 10 year anniversary and it becomes a time of regret and reflection on opportunities lost. Too many people end their marriages because the love is not the same as it used to be, and they don't know how to love their partners anymore. It's so frustrating!
If "falling out of love" sounds familiar to you, help is at hand:
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Is your marriage falling apart and feeling powerless?
Do you have anger and conflict tearing you two apart?
Is your marriage affected by addiction issues?
Partner cheated on you?
Marriage affected by money problems?
Are you in a marriage that is suffering because your partner has depression?
Is the honeymoon over?
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Andrew's Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course helps all couples, both young and old, consider their relationship problems and how their misconceptions and attitudes can help shape a recovery or add to their ordeal.
It is quite normal for a marriage to go through cycles, and arguments will happen from time to time. In fact, one thing they talk about in the course is how disagreements are normal. It's nothing to be ashamed about! Its how you deal with those arguments and disagreements that determines the health of your relationship.
The Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course is an instant-download 12-part video and written course, AND includes FOUR additional topic-specific courses where Andrew, Richard and Amy delve into relationship issues for couples dealing with depression, addiction, infidelity, and money problems. That's 8 hours of video and 5 study guides to work your way through!
Plus there are bonus interviews with guest relationship coaches Scot and Emily McKay discussing ways to cope with a partner with mental illness, and Mimi Tanner discussing how to keep your spouse interested in you forever.
In addition to this is a free email consultation so that customers can discuss any additional marriage issues with a member of the team. This really can help ANY couple with almost ANY marriage problem!
I really do believe Andrew and the Save My Marriage Today team are onto a good thing here, and they really want to help. The techniques are fresh, thought provoking, come from a range of perspectives, and have been proven over and over to help save marriages. I was very impressed with this course and have recommended it to everyone I know.
I would encourage you to look for yourself and do something today to kick-start your marriage-saving solution. There is never a better time to save your marriage!
Visit:http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r and take control of your future. I’m sure you will be as impressed as I was.
Bye for now,
Olutimilehin Olubusola
I was talking to the team at Save My Marriage Today recently, and we were talking about marriages gone bad. It seemed at one time that the only place that marriages went bust was in Hollywood, but anyone you talk to now either knows someone divorced or someone with marital problems. Hey, it may even be you.
The single biggest reason couples break up is due to "falling out of love" or poor communication. It seems as though many couples reach the 5 or 10 year anniversary and it becomes a time of regret and reflection on opportunities lost. Too many people end their marriages because the love is not the same as it used to be, and they don't know how to love their partners anymore. It's so frustrating!
If "falling out of love" sounds familiar to you, help is at hand:
Click here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r
Online author Andrew Rusbatch showed me the latest course he has created to help troubled couples, and to be honest, I was very impressed! Andrew is the host of Save My Marriage Today Home Study Course. It's a fantastic course that covers all the essential aspects to a healthy marriage.
Are you or your partner falling out of love?
Is your marriage falling apart and feeling powerless?
Do you have anger and conflict tearing you two apart?
Is your marriage affected by addiction issues?
Partner cheated on you?
Marriage affected by money problems?
Are you in a marriage that is suffering because your partner has depression?
Is the honeymoon over?
Many couples break up over issues that could have been resolved if they had only taken the time for self-examination. Let's face it, you can't always control what your partner does, and the Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course recognizes this and focuses on your actions and beliefs, and how they are shaping your approach to save your marriage.
Andrew's Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course helps all couples, both young and old, consider their relationship problems and how their misconceptions and attitudes can help shape a recovery or add to their ordeal.
It is quite normal for a marriage to go through cycles, and arguments will happen from time to time. In fact, one thing they talk about in the course is how disagreements are normal. It's nothing to be ashamed about! Its how you deal with those arguments and disagreements that determines the health of your relationship.
The Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course is an instant-download 12-part video and written course, AND includes FOUR additional topic-specific courses where Andrew, Richard and Amy delve into relationship issues for couples dealing with depression, addiction, infidelity, and money problems. That's 8 hours of video and 5 study guides to work your way through!
Plus there are bonus interviews with guest relationship coaches Scot and Emily McKay discussing ways to cope with a partner with mental illness, and Mimi Tanner discussing how to keep your spouse interested in you forever.
In addition to this is a free email consultation so that customers can discuss any additional marriage issues with a member of the team. This really can help ANY couple with almost ANY marriage problem!
I really do believe Andrew and the Save My Marriage Today team are onto a good thing here, and they really want to help. The techniques are fresh, thought provoking, come from a range of perspectives, and have been proven over and over to help save marriages. I was very impressed with this course and have recommended it to everyone I know.
I would encourage you to look for yourself and do something today to kick-start your marriage-saving solution. There is never a better time to save your marriage!
Visit:http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r and take control of your future. I’m sure you will be as impressed as I was.
Bye for now,
Olutimilehin Olubusola
Making your marriage work
Making your marriage work
After two years of marriage with Jude, Jane thought it was heaven on earth. They were a happy couple what with Jane three months gone. Jane had what every woman would dream of. A lovely husband who was faithful and comfortable and she wasn’t doing badly herself. They were both God-fearing and they knew the love they had for each other was going to take them through thick and thin or so they thought.
The next scan Jane went for revealed that a fibroid was growing alongside her baby. It was so big that the doctors were speculating if the baby was going to survive but they settled for surgery and that was when trouble started in Jane and Jude’s perfect marriage.
Jude was devastated because exactly the same thing killed his mother and the baby sister he didn’t get to know. His father wasn’t the same person again. It was like the death of his mother killed his father and so their lovely home was never the same because Jude’s father didn’t get over it till his death.
Jude made up his mind that Jane’s illness wasn’t going to bring him down like his mother’s sickness did to his father. In as much as he loved his wife and unborn child, he detached himself from her emotionally and the crack on their marriage wall got wider.
Jane didn’t understand what was happening. She needed her husband but he was nowhere to be found because he avoided her. Though she knew the same thing happened to his mum but she also knew that Jude was scared but she was helpless because Jude didn’t allow her to reach him (he started coming home late at night). Jane had to fight for her life and that of her baby alone. The day of the surgery was fast approaching and Jude’s ‘night-outs’ increased. Jane learnt how to become a better wife; she worked at her marriage and continually prayed for Jude.
On the night scheduled for the surgery, Jude was about leaving the house when he suddenly saw a picture of Jane and the doors to his emotion came loose. He suddenly realized how selfish and uncaring he had being to his wife especially now that she needed him. He remembered all what she did to talk to him; he then prayed she would survive so that they could work at their marriage together. He poured out his heart to God and he felt peace. He raced down to the hospital just as they were about wheeling Jane to the theatre and begged for her forgiveness, he also prayed that she would survive and told her he loved her. Ten hours later, Jane was in the recovery room. She miraculously survived but lost the baby in the process, but the most important thing in her life had being regained- her marriage. Jane saved her marriage herself.
See…
If you are going through a crisis in your marriage, you have to work at it. Nobody, not even God will come from heaven to work at it for you (but He will give you the know-how). A marriage in crises can only be repaired by the manufacturer, so you have to go back to Him to fix it for you. Whatever you invest in your marriage depends on what you get out of it.
To make your marriage work, you have to work on your fears and shortcomings, don’t ever think that you can change your spouse. You should be the one to change (just like Jane did). Respect each other. Respect is not a gift, it is earned. Pray for and with each other. No one can pray for your husband as much as he will pray for himself and you praying for him, viz-a-viz for the wife too.
Ciao!
After two years of marriage with Jude, Jane thought it was heaven on earth. They were a happy couple what with Jane three months gone. Jane had what every woman would dream of. A lovely husband who was faithful and comfortable and she wasn’t doing badly herself. They were both God-fearing and they knew the love they had for each other was going to take them through thick and thin or so they thought.
The next scan Jane went for revealed that a fibroid was growing alongside her baby. It was so big that the doctors were speculating if the baby was going to survive but they settled for surgery and that was when trouble started in Jane and Jude’s perfect marriage.
Jude was devastated because exactly the same thing killed his mother and the baby sister he didn’t get to know. His father wasn’t the same person again. It was like the death of his mother killed his father and so their lovely home was never the same because Jude’s father didn’t get over it till his death.
Jude made up his mind that Jane’s illness wasn’t going to bring him down like his mother’s sickness did to his father. In as much as he loved his wife and unborn child, he detached himself from her emotionally and the crack on their marriage wall got wider.
Jane didn’t understand what was happening. She needed her husband but he was nowhere to be found because he avoided her. Though she knew the same thing happened to his mum but she also knew that Jude was scared but she was helpless because Jude didn’t allow her to reach him (he started coming home late at night). Jane had to fight for her life and that of her baby alone. The day of the surgery was fast approaching and Jude’s ‘night-outs’ increased. Jane learnt how to become a better wife; she worked at her marriage and continually prayed for Jude.
On the night scheduled for the surgery, Jude was about leaving the house when he suddenly saw a picture of Jane and the doors to his emotion came loose. He suddenly realized how selfish and uncaring he had being to his wife especially now that she needed him. He remembered all what she did to talk to him; he then prayed she would survive so that they could work at their marriage together. He poured out his heart to God and he felt peace. He raced down to the hospital just as they were about wheeling Jane to the theatre and begged for her forgiveness, he also prayed that she would survive and told her he loved her. Ten hours later, Jane was in the recovery room. She miraculously survived but lost the baby in the process, but the most important thing in her life had being regained- her marriage. Jane saved her marriage herself.
See…
If you are going through a crisis in your marriage, you have to work at it. Nobody, not even God will come from heaven to work at it for you (but He will give you the know-how). A marriage in crises can only be repaired by the manufacturer, so you have to go back to Him to fix it for you. Whatever you invest in your marriage depends on what you get out of it.
To make your marriage work, you have to work on your fears and shortcomings, don’t ever think that you can change your spouse. You should be the one to change (just like Jane did). Respect each other. Respect is not a gift, it is earned. Pray for and with each other. No one can pray for your husband as much as he will pray for himself and you praying for him, viz-a-viz for the wife too.
Ciao!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Keep Your Marriage Going
Using the words “I love you” is not just when you are feeling pleased with your husband or when he has shown that he is the man in the house. You can say those words when you know he has hurt you, you can say them when he is downcast or when he has lost a deal. It shows that you actually love not only when the going is good but when it is tough. You are boosting his morale as well. Hearing those words from you at that time to you might not be appropriate, but to him, you just swelled up his ego!
Husbands, these words mean a lot to your wife. Whether she is a full time housewife or a working mum, saying them means to her that you love her really and that you appreciate what she is doing at the home front. You can take it a step further by doing something for her at home, no matter how little and see what will happen. She will definitely warm up to you.
Celebrate birthdays
You don’t have to take her out to an expensive restaurant or totally cut down on your budget to celebrate your wife’s birthday this year, if your budget does not allow for it. You can order a cake, or cook her favourite dish if you good at it or pay someone to cook it for you. You can arrange to have a surprise household birthday party. Actually, there are lots of things that you can do to celebrate your spouse’s birthday without breaking your back.
One wife actually wrote that from a year before her husband’s birthday, she bought a special notebook and filled in everyday while she loves her husband. She admitted that there were some days she could not write anything because he wasn’t always a saint. Imagine the joy in her husband’s face when she handed that notebook to him a year after!
He kept that book with him till he died. Before he died, he made his wife realize how much he loved her everyday based on what she wrote.
Let nothing take the place of sex!
What are you about to do? Ruining your marriage and thinking that sex is not important because you busy with the kids or because you are busy at work? Men will hardly sat that anyway because they know just were to get it. If you think you can starve your husband of sex and think we will still be faithful to you in the next 2 years without threatening to get separated, sister, think again.
I know that marriage is about companionship but I guess there were sparks flying when you met your husband, there was this chemical attraction. That is the chemistry. Five years after and your husband doesn’t feel it? I ask again, what are you about to do?
Imagine when your children leave the nest 18 years after, you and your husbands have being living like strangers in those eighteen years. Is he the one you want to turn to now?
I know it is not easy being a sexy wife, mother and a professional but that is why God gave us the strength that the man does not have and that tongue to sweet-talk your husband in when you want to and when you don’t.
I know from what I have seen and read, most marriages fail because of infidelity and it is usually the wife’s fault. So please, don't let yours be part of the number.
ciao!
Click Here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r to save your marriage from disaster.
Husbands, these words mean a lot to your wife. Whether she is a full time housewife or a working mum, saying them means to her that you love her really and that you appreciate what she is doing at the home front. You can take it a step further by doing something for her at home, no matter how little and see what will happen. She will definitely warm up to you.
Celebrate birthdays
You don’t have to take her out to an expensive restaurant or totally cut down on your budget to celebrate your wife’s birthday this year, if your budget does not allow for it. You can order a cake, or cook her favourite dish if you good at it or pay someone to cook it for you. You can arrange to have a surprise household birthday party. Actually, there are lots of things that you can do to celebrate your spouse’s birthday without breaking your back.
One wife actually wrote that from a year before her husband’s birthday, she bought a special notebook and filled in everyday while she loves her husband. She admitted that there were some days she could not write anything because he wasn’t always a saint. Imagine the joy in her husband’s face when she handed that notebook to him a year after!
He kept that book with him till he died. Before he died, he made his wife realize how much he loved her everyday based on what she wrote.
Let nothing take the place of sex!
What are you about to do? Ruining your marriage and thinking that sex is not important because you busy with the kids or because you are busy at work? Men will hardly sat that anyway because they know just were to get it. If you think you can starve your husband of sex and think we will still be faithful to you in the next 2 years without threatening to get separated, sister, think again.
I know that marriage is about companionship but I guess there were sparks flying when you met your husband, there was this chemical attraction. That is the chemistry. Five years after and your husband doesn’t feel it? I ask again, what are you about to do?
Imagine when your children leave the nest 18 years after, you and your husbands have being living like strangers in those eighteen years. Is he the one you want to turn to now?
I know it is not easy being a sexy wife, mother and a professional but that is why God gave us the strength that the man does not have and that tongue to sweet-talk your husband in when you want to and when you don’t.
I know from what I have seen and read, most marriages fail because of infidelity and it is usually the wife’s fault. So please, don't let yours be part of the number.
ciao!
Click Here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r to save your marriage from disaster.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Your Skin: A vital part of you
Our skin is the largest organ of our bodies. It is made up of layers of cells and glands and just as it large, lots of activity goes on in there. The skin is kept alive by blood cells and other fluids and as a result of this, it excretes waste products in the form of salty sweat.Also, when you detoxify, the toxins come out through your skin! So you can really agree with me that we need to take good care of our skin.
Below are some of the tips that we can use most especially in this era of global warming.
Below are some of the tips that we can use most especially in this era of global warming.
- First things first, know your skin type. There are different skin types and they are the normal skin, dry skin, oily skin and the combination skin type( which can be both the oily and normal skin type or dry and normal skin type).
- Know the right moisturizer for your skin type.
- Don't ever go sun-bathing without your sunscreen.
- Anytime you have had a stressful day or you feel sticky, please and please, take your bath.
- Don't use soaps that are too harsh for your skin. Don't use antiseptic or medicated soap too often. They are not as healthy as you think!
- For your dry skin, you can use mashed-up avocado with glycerin to moisturize your skin. Avocado is great for dry skin.
- If you have sunburns or mild allergic reations to a particular make-up product, get some milk out of the fridge, soak in your face in the cold milk by using a clean wash cloth for 5-10minutes and see the amazing effect cool milk will have on your face. Milk has anti-inflammatory properties.
- To keep your legs looking great, mix one part of baby oil with one part of your body lotion and one part of your favourite sunscreen. Use the mixture on your legs as often as you can, also great for your shoulders.
- Use exfoliates once in a while to get rid of dead cells from your face. I use St.Ives apricot scrub but oatmeal with your bath gel will do just great.
- Avoid using astringents all the time.
- Don't wash your face too often because it will dry out your skin. three to four times a day will do.
- Try this! Add one teaspoon of baking soda powder with one teaspoon of salt with 3-4 drops of your favourite essential oil into a warm bath. Make your solution salty, soak yourself in and emerge- with a soft and smooth skin. What happened?
Please post your comments and watch out for more exciting articles.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
How do you give your lips the effects you want it to have? How do you get the scraps of your favorite lipstick to last longer? How do you blot out excess lipstick without getting your whole lips mushy or without staining your teeth? These are questions I will be answering in this article. Don’t worry, they are tips you can use because they have been used by everyday people, and they work. You don’t have to buy expensive things. Just read along!
How do I blot off excess lipstick or lip gloss?
Use coffee filters instead of tissue!
If you want to blot out excess lipstick or tone down your lipstick, use a coffee filter. Tissue get stuck on your lips because they are made of wood fibers so they make your lips look mushy but coffee filters are made of concentrated pressed paper. You can cut the coffee filters into squares and stockpile them in your bathroom or the handbag you want to use for the day.
Alternatively, you can use tissue papers with a harder texture. The ones you know won’t get shredded as you use them. Fold into squares and blot carefully.
How do I get my lower lip to be full and pouty?
After applying your lip gloss or lipstick, put a put a dab of shimmery white eye shadow instead of a matte color and blend in evenly on your lower lip. This way you get a pouty, fuller lower lip.
I don’t want my lip gloss applicator to get sticky?
Apply your lip liner round your lips first. Fill in with your lip liner and apply your lipstick on the top. Apply a dab of your lip gloss on your little finger and rub over the bottom lip carefully and quickly, close against the upper lip and blend it in carefully. Blot away the excesses and then use the applicator to even out your gloss.
‘Recycling’ lipstick?
If you don’t want to throw away the last of your favorite lipstick or gloss, you can get an old ice tray or plastic pillbox or tiny tubes to put the scraps of lipstick in. use cotton swabs or buds to scoop out the old lipstick into the tray/tubes/pillbox. You can mix with different lip gloss colors or you use it straight on. Using a lip brush will be the best way of applying it.
Anytime I apply my lipstick, my teeth get stained. What can I do?
This usually happens when you use your lip gloss or lipstick in excess. You can stop getting your teeth stained by making an ‘O’ with your mouth after applying your lipstick. Stick a clean into the ‘O’ and pull it out. The excess lipstick will come out. You can do this as many times as you want but make sure you clean your finger before inserting it in your mouth again.
How do I get my lipstick to stay on all day?
You first apply your foundation (a lighter shade) to your lips. Rub in a bit of powder for it to set. Then apply your lip liner before using your lipstick and lip gloss and then blot carefully.
To get fuller lips
Use a foundation or concealer that tends to be opaque and a shade lighter than your face. This is because your lips are lighter than your face. Apply a dab to the center of both the lower and upper lips using your fingertip or a cotton swab. Rub in until you can’t see the line of demarcation, then apply your lipstick to create fuller-looking lips. Loose powder or compact powder foundation come highly recommended not oil-based foundation.
DID YOU KNOW THAT?
Ancient Greeks painted their lips with vegetative dyes!
Most lipstick contains fish scales.
In ancient Egypt, both men and women used rogue, lipstick and nail polish.
LAST NOTES:
‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. Do you see yourself as beautiful? You are the first beholder of your beauty and it starts from within.
Ciao!
How do I blot off excess lipstick or lip gloss?
Use coffee filters instead of tissue!
If you want to blot out excess lipstick or tone down your lipstick, use a coffee filter. Tissue get stuck on your lips because they are made of wood fibers so they make your lips look mushy but coffee filters are made of concentrated pressed paper. You can cut the coffee filters into squares and stockpile them in your bathroom or the handbag you want to use for the day.
Alternatively, you can use tissue papers with a harder texture. The ones you know won’t get shredded as you use them. Fold into squares and blot carefully.
How do I get my lower lip to be full and pouty?
After applying your lip gloss or lipstick, put a put a dab of shimmery white eye shadow instead of a matte color and blend in evenly on your lower lip. This way you get a pouty, fuller lower lip.
I don’t want my lip gloss applicator to get sticky?
Apply your lip liner round your lips first. Fill in with your lip liner and apply your lipstick on the top. Apply a dab of your lip gloss on your little finger and rub over the bottom lip carefully and quickly, close against the upper lip and blend it in carefully. Blot away the excesses and then use the applicator to even out your gloss.
‘Recycling’ lipstick?
If you don’t want to throw away the last of your favorite lipstick or gloss, you can get an old ice tray or plastic pillbox or tiny tubes to put the scraps of lipstick in. use cotton swabs or buds to scoop out the old lipstick into the tray/tubes/pillbox. You can mix with different lip gloss colors or you use it straight on. Using a lip brush will be the best way of applying it.
Anytime I apply my lipstick, my teeth get stained. What can I do?
This usually happens when you use your lip gloss or lipstick in excess. You can stop getting your teeth stained by making an ‘O’ with your mouth after applying your lipstick. Stick a clean into the ‘O’ and pull it out. The excess lipstick will come out. You can do this as many times as you want but make sure you clean your finger before inserting it in your mouth again.
How do I get my lipstick to stay on all day?
You first apply your foundation (a lighter shade) to your lips. Rub in a bit of powder for it to set. Then apply your lip liner before using your lipstick and lip gloss and then blot carefully.
To get fuller lips
Use a foundation or concealer that tends to be opaque and a shade lighter than your face. This is because your lips are lighter than your face. Apply a dab to the center of both the lower and upper lips using your fingertip or a cotton swab. Rub in until you can’t see the line of demarcation, then apply your lipstick to create fuller-looking lips. Loose powder or compact powder foundation come highly recommended not oil-based foundation.
DID YOU KNOW THAT?
Ancient Greeks painted their lips with vegetative dyes!
Most lipstick contains fish scales.
In ancient Egypt, both men and women used rogue, lipstick and nail polish.
LAST NOTES:
‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. Do you see yourself as beautiful? You are the first beholder of your beauty and it starts from within.
Ciao!
Monday, March 23, 2009
Happy Everafter!
Marriage, marriage, marriage!
It is not always a bed of roses
It can be fun, demanding, rewarding and tasking
It is where you share moments of joy and sorrow with the one you love
It is where you conceive, raise and watch the children leave the nest
It is where you nurse each other out of sicknesses
It is where you comfort each other and encourage yourselves out of the storms of life
It is where you quarrel and fight and are threatened with a separation or divorce
It is where love is meant to grow and grow and grow
That is marriage.
This is all of your life so why not read these few tips to make it worthwhile.
1. Don’t mete out with the same yardstick.
There is no relationship that does not have the two parties quarreling or fighting. You wonder why you have hardly heard any shouting from family B while family A can not do without fighting every weekend. Well, I guess that family B knows how to settle their grievances with each other better.
If your husband is criticizing you or angry at how you handled a situation, whatever it is, you are erupting volcanoes if you meet him headlong with a matching anger. Why not listen to his point of view and express yours in a more quiet and mature way.
I have learnt that a soft answer turns away wrath. I have also learnt that when someone is expressing their view, it means I have not reasoned that way yet and so I listen.
2. Always try to remain attractive… be your best.
A woman just told me that because you are a career woman or stay at home mum, does not give you the right to neglect your body and looks.
Same goes for the husbands, because you are always on the shirt and tie does not mean you should not look sexy in shorts and a tee-shirt. Try and get rid of the pot-bellies’ and flaccid muscles. Take care of your beards and moustache. There is nothing wrong in asking your wife if she likes your beard or you should trim it some more. There is nothing wrong in using deodorants. If you are a handy-man, take your bath and smell nice. Your wife was not tripped when you were all sweaty and smelly. I am sure she saw a beautiful body structure smelling nice and a cute face.
Women, for crying out loud, do a manicure. Go to the saloon, take your bath. No man likes a smelly wife neither does a woman like a smelly man.
3. Please and please, make time for yourselves.
As a career mum or stay at home mum, you will quickly realize that 24hours is really a short time. Your husband, your kids (and job) take the most of your day and you hardly get a minute to sit down or be quiet within.
There is nothing wrong with taking a day off. Drop the kids with their grandparents or get a babysitter. Have a ladies’ day out or take a drive. Just do something to refresh yourself, give you a new perspective and meet new people. You will be surprised how awesome you will feel and how different you will relate to your spouse and kids.
4. Don’t ever try to change him or her.
You married each other for he or she is. You love him or her that way. If your wife is very outspoken or your husband does not want to try new colours in his wardrobe, then leave it at that. It is okay to chip in some advice lovingly but do not enforce a change. Enforcing or insisting you have your way will drive your spouse away.
She might not want to tell you what happened when she spoke her mind to a colleague and he might not let you know when he gives away the new-colored shirt you just bought for him
5. Gifts can really go a long way………..
Buying gifts for your spouse should not be a practice that is left undone for a long time. Marriage is a give and take affair, and that includes giving gifts. Buying long-stemmed roses or her favorite flowers and giving him a new shaving kit is a very good investment with guaranteed yields of profit.
You can help take out the trash can or offer to cook or change the baby’s diapers. No matter how little it is or trivial, that gift of yours will definitely make your spouse’s day because it was bought or done out of love.
Thanks for reading. There will be a concluding part soon.
Would you like to save your marriage from an impending divorce?
Would you want your marriage to enter another phase of heaven on earth?
It can be done!
To get the e-book which is downloadable, cheap with step by step ways to save your marriage to get you there. Click here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r
It is not always a bed of roses
It can be fun, demanding, rewarding and tasking
It is where you share moments of joy and sorrow with the one you love
It is where you conceive, raise and watch the children leave the nest
It is where you nurse each other out of sicknesses
It is where you comfort each other and encourage yourselves out of the storms of life
It is where you quarrel and fight and are threatened with a separation or divorce
It is where love is meant to grow and grow and grow
That is marriage.
This is all of your life so why not read these few tips to make it worthwhile.
1. Don’t mete out with the same yardstick.
There is no relationship that does not have the two parties quarreling or fighting. You wonder why you have hardly heard any shouting from family B while family A can not do without fighting every weekend. Well, I guess that family B knows how to settle their grievances with each other better.
If your husband is criticizing you or angry at how you handled a situation, whatever it is, you are erupting volcanoes if you meet him headlong with a matching anger. Why not listen to his point of view and express yours in a more quiet and mature way.
I have learnt that a soft answer turns away wrath. I have also learnt that when someone is expressing their view, it means I have not reasoned that way yet and so I listen.
2. Always try to remain attractive… be your best.
A woman just told me that because you are a career woman or stay at home mum, does not give you the right to neglect your body and looks.
Same goes for the husbands, because you are always on the shirt and tie does not mean you should not look sexy in shorts and a tee-shirt. Try and get rid of the pot-bellies’ and flaccid muscles. Take care of your beards and moustache. There is nothing wrong in asking your wife if she likes your beard or you should trim it some more. There is nothing wrong in using deodorants. If you are a handy-man, take your bath and smell nice. Your wife was not tripped when you were all sweaty and smelly. I am sure she saw a beautiful body structure smelling nice and a cute face.
Women, for crying out loud, do a manicure. Go to the saloon, take your bath. No man likes a smelly wife neither does a woman like a smelly man.
3. Please and please, make time for yourselves.
As a career mum or stay at home mum, you will quickly realize that 24hours is really a short time. Your husband, your kids (and job) take the most of your day and you hardly get a minute to sit down or be quiet within.
There is nothing wrong with taking a day off. Drop the kids with their grandparents or get a babysitter. Have a ladies’ day out or take a drive. Just do something to refresh yourself, give you a new perspective and meet new people. You will be surprised how awesome you will feel and how different you will relate to your spouse and kids.
4. Don’t ever try to change him or her.
You married each other for he or she is. You love him or her that way. If your wife is very outspoken or your husband does not want to try new colours in his wardrobe, then leave it at that. It is okay to chip in some advice lovingly but do not enforce a change. Enforcing or insisting you have your way will drive your spouse away.
She might not want to tell you what happened when she spoke her mind to a colleague and he might not let you know when he gives away the new-colored shirt you just bought for him
5. Gifts can really go a long way………..
Buying gifts for your spouse should not be a practice that is left undone for a long time. Marriage is a give and take affair, and that includes giving gifts. Buying long-stemmed roses or her favorite flowers and giving him a new shaving kit is a very good investment with guaranteed yields of profit.
You can help take out the trash can or offer to cook or change the baby’s diapers. No matter how little it is or trivial, that gift of yours will definitely make your spouse’s day because it was bought or done out of love.
Thanks for reading. There will be a concluding part soon.
Would you like to save your marriage from an impending divorce?
Would you want your marriage to enter another phase of heaven on earth?
It can be done!
To get the e-book which is downloadable, cheap with step by step ways to save your marriage to get you there. Click here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r
Sustaining intimacy in your marriage
Many people think that marriage is all about exchanging wedding vows, child-bearing and then being responsible for the children. Well, probably to an extent, but all these can be overbearing and cause an emotional rift between the couple. Thus affecting the intimacy they shared during their courtship and into their first three years of marriage.
Little wonder Rachael who has been married for five years can’t understand what’s happening between her and Ian. When they both started dating, they were the envy of friends and family. They went everywhere together from functions to travelling. Their love towards each other was evident and you could almost wish you could trade places with them. The wedding bells rang, their love life was awesome and the kids started coming in. Suddenly, they didn’t seem to have time for each other again. Their sex life was beginning to be non-existent. They were turning out to be complete strangers but neither of them was involved in extramarital affairs.
How do they get that intimacy back?
- The women should endeavour to remain beautiful. Most women tend to remain out of fashion because of their marital status or child-bearing, either as a career woman or a stay-at-home mum. Let your husband see that ravishing beauty he was eager to have as his wife then. Take care of your body, fix your hair and nails, try out new make-up and perfumes, dress smartly and wear sexy lingeries to bed.
If you think you are not beautiful, you are wrong because your husband was once attracted to you. If you are a nursing mother, you can shed off those flabby arms and get back your sexy figure. Eat fruits, drink lots of water, rest more, exercise and treat your body with the mind-set of setting your husband’s body on fire.
- Maintain eye contact. Experts say that if you want to know the level of intimacy in your relationship, consider the amount of time you spend with a locked gaze. It is very essential in communication. Next time you are talking to your spouse, don’t just talk with your mouth. Talk with your eyes. Always look straight into his or her eyes when you talk. Many people can’t even look at their spouse’s eyes while making love. Is that modesty or what? Are you shy? Is he or she not your spouse? Are your bodies not meant for each other? Averting your eyes during love-making won’t help you. Looking into your spouse’s eyes will help you know how much he or she desires you and how satisfied he or she is.
- Don’t forget little things cause they matter. For example, you can wake up before your wife and write a short note to tell her how much you enjoyed her meal last night and leave it in a place where she will see it( in her wallet or shoes). You can send a SMS to tell your husband how nuch you are looking forward to spending the night with him. He or she will definitely do more than you expect with little things like that.
- Have a secret code. My fiancé told me that when a lady or man scratches your palm during a handshake, it means that he or she wants to have sex with you. I just kept that in my treasure box, ready for use once I get married. You can have such codes only the both of you can understand. It will bring about connection and excitement in your relationship.
- Have a vacation or a getaway weekend. This can be done monthly or quarterly. But as many times as the both of you can afford. Send the children to their grandparents place or to a relative’s place. Have the weekend to yourselves. You might not have to travel. Have all the fun you want within the confines of your home as long as you are both creative.
These are just some of the things that can be done to bring back or sustain the intimacy in your marriage. It involves work for your marriage to survive. GOODLUCK!
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